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Archive for March, 2012

Keep Calm and Carry On

We like the saying “Keep Calm and Carry On” – – it’s something they used to tell people to help them deal with the fear of being bombed in Britain during World War II.  That is kind of how cancer feels.  Like you are waiting for a bomb to drop.  I like that saying because it is a reminder that we can’t let fear paralyze our lives.   We need to go on.  That is why I haven’t posted in a while.  We are enjoying life and carrying on!

Ever since Mike’s diagnosis we have met so many truly amazing people who LIVE with melanoma.  Our “mole mates” are inspirational.  I was bursting with pride when our friend Christina McEvoy was featured in the NY Times.  Christina has Stage 4 melanoma (in remission).  Between treatments of Yervoy and caring for her young children, she started a group in Idaho for melanoma survivors (Sol Survivors).   An amazing woman!  Our other friend Sue Lescure had her eye removed due to her ocular melanoma.  What torture she has endured – all with such grace and beauty! She is also amazing…and in remission!  And I can’t forget my friend Shari.   When they found melanoma in her brain and lungs she stayed very positive.  This is a woman who, a day after brain surgery, came to see me in Palo Alto and brought ME a gift – a little porcelain bird that says “Be Brave” painted on it.  I am happy to report that Shari is also in remission.

Sadly, I can’t forget the people whose lives ended due to melanoma over the past months.  We lost a few good men.  One was Mike Brockey.   I admired the very honest journey he took with melanoma.  Another was Andy Wileman.  http://thewilemansjourney.blogspot.com/ Andy was a 40 year old police officer and father of young children who bravely fought Stage IV melanoma.  He passed away in December. My heart goes out to Mike and Andy’s family.  These two men left a mark on me that I won’t forget.

Mike’s sister and I are on the event committee for the Melanoma Research Foundation San Francisco Gala.  If you can join us on May 17 – or donate auction items – we would be thrilled. I can’t wait to see all the wonderful people at this event – from the top local docs to the local celebs.  But the main reason we love this event is because we get to connect with melanoma survivors.   It is therapeutic and it helps us keep calm and carry on.

– Emily